Jordan (32, serving), Grace (30), Ava (9), Edie (6) and Ralph (1)
How long have you been an Army family?
11 years.
How long have you been in Brunei?
Seven months.
What’s your quarter like?
We’ve been lucky enough to get a refurbished bungalow. They are in the process of renovating them all. It definitely made it easier to settle in and make it a home. The quarters here are big so it’s nice having the extra space. I especially love our patio area, it’s great for watching Brunei’s amazing tropical rainstorms and sunsets.
Are there any employment/ training opportunities?
Employment is limited as it is all mainly within the garrison. Jobs that come up at the local school and nursery tend to get snapped up quickly. There are opportunities within Bruneian companies but they are very rare. Training and courses are accessible — many spouses are using their time here to study and get some qualifications.
What about schools/ childcare?
There is a lovely MOD school and a nursery which is a short drive away. Some families do employ full/part-time ‘amahs’ for childcare and to have help at home as it can be difficult being so far away from family, especially if you are working.
Where do Army families get together and who supports you?
There is always something going on here whether it’s bingo or a quiz at the patio bar on the patch, people’s houses, the pool, coffee dates or play dates. We always like to have something in the diary. The community support is amazing and friends quickly become like family; we all look out for each other.
How do you find the cost of living out there?
The cost of living here is a mixed affair, especially compared to the UK. Eating out is definitely a lot cheaper. Getting my nails done, going for a massage or going out for coffee is also cheaper. Fuel is exceptionally cheap here but food shopping is around 40 per cent more than the UK.
What are the best and worst things about living there?
The travel, the food and learning about different cultures are highlights. The lifestyle we get to enjoy feels incredible and we feel very lucky to have been given this opportunity.
The hardest part is being far from family and friends and not having our dog Bailey with us. We chose to leave him with our parents for many reasons. I miss the UK shops and the ease of nipping out for stuff. You have to think ahead and be organised which is something I am not very good at!